Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Ada Apa Dengan Cinta Reunion Short Film
















Woww...this short video really make my day. It was 12 years ago when i watch it, Ada Apa Dengan Cinta. Wahh...fenomenanya masa tu...Cinta...Rangga... So sweet! And baru² ni aku terdengar pasal AADC ni. Rupanya short video...dah ramai yg upload pun. Teruja punya pasal, time boss aku entah kemana ni aku pun buka lah Youtube.

Homai homai homai...melting kejap bila tgk video ni. Seronok sgt tgk friendship diorang. How I wish i have a bunch of good friends like this? Schooling together, grow up together...

Sebenarnya sekuel short video ni adalah untuk mempromosikan function terbaru application LINE, iaitu LINE ALUMNI. Memang bijak sangat diorang ambil sesuatu yang pernah popular dulu, mcm filem AADC ni untuk relate kan dgn function Line Alumni ni. Maybe orang x terfikir pun pasal filem ni dah. Tapi bila ada come back cmgni, secara tak langsung mempromosikan jugak filem ni semula. Banyak pihak yang akan dapat keuntungan daripada kebijaksanaan marketing team Line ni. Hihihi...kreatif..kreatif...

Aku harap sgt akan ada sekuel daripada filem ni later. Rindu sgt nak tgk Rangga & Cinta. 

AADC 2002 vs AADC 2014...

-mamairfan-


Monday, November 17, 2014

Irfan @ Kidzania

Heyya...at last jejak jugak Irfan ke Kidzania. Dah lama sgt rasanya dia sebut sebut nak g Kidzania tu. Ni aku ada masa takde class ni, aku bawa lah dia. Lagipun baru² ni dia mcm rindu sgt kat papa dia. So, sbb nak happy kan dia, aku pun bawa lah...

Masuk-masuk je blur...cuma yang aku dah google, kena tukarkan cheque yang dia dapat kat CIMB Bank kepada cash. So, kami pun cari CIMB...x jauh sgt lah daripada entrance tu. Lepas tu dia dah mula rambang mata tgk mcm² office ada kat dalam Kidzania World tu. Time tu tak ramai org lagi. Tapi sbb jam belum pukul 10am, semua tempat tu masih tutup. Cuma kat Fire Station je ramai dah beratur. So tiba-tiba datang staff Kidzania yang jaga kat Main entrance tadi tu, dia bagi tips, suruh pegi kat AirAsia SkyRider.

Irfan pulak yang mmg nak sgt sgt jadik pilot, melompat la cari SkyRider tu. Sampai je baru ada 2 org beratur. Dia pun beratur sekali. Mula² dia beratur nak x nak je. Kejap melompat ke belakang, ke depan. Irfan...biasalah x leh dok dia. Last² bila dia dh mula faham yang kalau dia x beratur elok², org akan amek tempat dia, barulah dia dok beratur diam diam.

Dia nak jadi pilot so, aku tgk daripada luar je. Nampak la diorg pakaikan dia baju kemeja putih mcm pilot tu, dgn topi pilot. Segak anak aku. Tapi parents dok kat luar langsung x nampak anak² kat dalam tu. Jawabnya kenalah beli gambar yang cameraman profesional Kidzania snapkan utk kita (RM25/sekeping). Takpelah, Irfan punya pasal..mama no hal.


The best part...As an AirAsia Pilot
Makanan kat dalam tu ada banyak. Banyak cafe...ada restaurant jugak...aku lupa pulak nama restaurant tu ;-). Tapi suka nak diingatkan, makanan kat tempat mcm gitu kenalah standby RM baaanyak baaanyak. Sbb harga 1 pc sausage cheese kalau x silap aku RM5 ke RM6. Nasi goreng + soft drink RM10. Ok kalau sorang dua, tapi kalau ramai² mengah jugak kan?

As a Prosecutor
Gambar atas ni masa Irfan jadi Prosecutor. Ada satu group budak² sekolah menengah nak masuk. Aku kira² ada 6 org. Tgk kat signboard kat luar tu nak 7 org. So, aku kata kat Irfan, ok boleh beratur. Tapi yang kelakarnya Irfan sorg je yang kecik. Tapi kalau ikut had umur, dia nak 6+ kira boleh la. Cuma group yang Irfan join tu je nampak mcm x sesuai. Haha takpe Irfan berani.


As a Mechanic
 Yang ni dia jadik mechanic. Mulanya dia nak bawa kereta. Tapi sebab had ketinggian untuk bawa kereta tu dia x lepas, aku pujuk dia jadik mechanic je. Dia enjoy jugak bukak pasang tayar kereta. Yang aku perasan, dia dah mula pandai beratur. Dia x bagi org potong line dia.


As a Policeman
Atas tu dia jadi policeman. Dia sgt suka jugak. Sampai nak jadik policeman utk 2nd round. Dengan uniform police dia, cap police...aku tgk dia kuar drpd police station tu bawa cone. Rupanya nak jaga jalan time Fireman padamkan kebakaran kat satu hotel dalam Kidzania City tu. Serius sungguh muka dia time jaga jalan tu. Hahaa...Irfan...Irfan...


As an Endoscopy Surgeon
 Yang ni mencabar sikit sbb Irfan tunggu kat dalam tu lama sgt. Sampai dia dah bosan duduk, dia pegi pulak melawat kawasan dalam tu. Tgk nurse training tukar lampin, susukan baby. Padahal Irfan tu surgeon. Haha tggu turn lama sgt tu la jadi dia. Tapi dia memang minat jadi endoscopy surgeon. Dia suka tgk bahagian organ dalaman ni. Eiishh kalau mama? Ngeri...!!

As a Dell Engineer
Engineer Dell ni sebenarnya pekerjaan kedua yang Irfan kerja lepas jadik Pilot. Ok jugak tapi mungkin x menepati minat dia. Haa..yang bestnya time ni kita boleh nampak kecenderungan anak² kita untuk jadi apa. Yang ni, mula² dia buat puzzle rasanya kat laptop tu. Pastu dia beralih ke laptop lain & trainer dia ajar pasal parts kat notebook & cara pasang dia. Irfan dapat sijil lepas habis training ni. 

So, that's all untuk entri kali ni. Mama beli gamba Irfan 4 keping 6R + fridge magnet gamba Irfan + keychain gambar Irfan + 1 pilot card = RM130. Oklah. Mahal tapi untuk Irfan x terasa apa...buah hati mama ada sorang je. Kalau bukan untuk Irfan, mama nak belanja siapa lagi? Rezeki anak...

-mamairfan-

Friday, November 14, 2014

Kurang sebulan genaplah SETAHUN..

Tengah dok busy busy buat keje kat ofis, tiba² teringat hari ni 14hb November 2014. Check² calender, kira punya kira, tak sampai sebulan lagi, genaplah setahun usia perpisahan antara kami (aku & Irfan) dgn insan itu. Hurmm...perasaan? Untuk aku, mungkin aku redha & pandang ke depan. Lagipun aku lebih berminat dgn kebaikan yang aku dapat daripada perpisahan itu. Hati aku lebih tenang, kewangan aku di tahap yang ok ok gitu, hidup lebih ceria...mungkin sebab kurang masalah. Untuk Irfan...? Hmmm...susahnya nak predict perasaan anak kecil ni.

Apa yang boleh aku katakan, dia agak nakal baru² ni. Susahnya nak dengar cakap kami semua (tokmi, atuk, acu & mama). So, pada mulanya kami marahkan jugak bila dia degil & nakal. Tapi lama² bila dia kata, "kalau adik nakal, semua org suka...kalau adik buat irfan, irfan jugak yang kena marah...", korang rasa hati aku macamana? Kami cuba sabar sedaya mungkin lebih² lagi aku. Sejak tersebarnya aku ni single mother kat neighbourhood aku dan sejak mereka mula pasang spotlight menghala ke rumah aku untuk spotcheck apa segala gerak geri aku, memang sedaya upaya aku akan ajak Irfan balik rumah. Kalau tak, memang Irfan suka lepak kat rumah tokmi dia lah. Kalau dia kat rumah aku, senang aku nak pantau, nak nasihat dia. Tapi kalau kat rumah mak, aku risau kalau² diorg hilang sabar kat Irfan. Yelah, aku ni mak...sikit sebanyak mesti terasa kalau Irfan kena marah. Bukan terasa apa, cuma kesiankan Irfan je.

Aku rasa Irfan mesti selalu fikir yang hidup dia tak sempurna mcm orang lain. Walaupun dia dikelilingi atuk, nenek, pak cu, kazen²...aku tau ada sesuatu jauh di sudut hati dia yang hilang...yang tak sempurna. Tapi Irfan ni jenis diam...pendam... Atau maybe dia tak tau cane nak cakap. Bila ditanya, "ingat papa ke?", dia kata, "eh, takdelah". 

Kadang² aku sangat terasa hati bila abg aku selalu marah Irfan. Pandang Irfan macam nak telan orang. Irfan nakal, memang kena marah. Bila dia main dgn anak dia, Imran, takde lah dia nak main sekali dgn Irfan. Imran manja dgn aku. Aku bukan nak dia balas apa yang aku buat. Tapi cubalah faham, anak aku tu takde ayah, tak boleh ke pakcik dia sendiri isi kekosongan tu? Memang sedih tgk cara abg aku layan Irfan. Mula dulu aku fikir aku sorang je yang rasa cmgtu. Tapi rupanya Amir, ayah & mak pun rasa cmgtu. Kadang² Irfan mengadu sambil nangis, "Kenapa abi tu mcm tu?".

Aku pernah whatsapp abg & luahkan apa yang terbuku dalam hati aku, aku minta dia jadilah ayah pada Irfan. Dia kata ok. Tapi kejap je...lepas tu sama je.

Kesian Irfan. Dia permata dalam hidup aku. Aku hanya ada dia & dia hanya ada aku. Bagi aku dia memang anugerah yang tak ternilai. Aku cuba jadi peindung dia. Aku cuba bagi sesempurna yang mungkin untuk dia. Dia anak yang sgt bijak tapi yang aku perasan baru² ni prestasi pelajaran dia semakin menurun. Semoga Allah kuatkan semangat kami menempuh hari² mendatang.

Hidup aku adalah untuk IRFAN. 

-mamairfan-

Berbuka Puasa & Doa Selamat @ Our Newly Renovated House

Alhamdulillah...syukur...

Akhirnya siap jugak rumah mak...hihi. Seronok tgk parents kita happy. Tapi penat...aku tau semua org penat. Mak sangat penat, mana nak tolong aku jaga Irfan, nak kemas rumah, nak pindah, nak buat doa selamat. Tapi yang aku tau, diorang happy. 

13 November 2014, jam 6.30pm kami jemput adik-adik aku kat tahfiz yang ayah usahakan, Madrasah Tahfiz Al-Mustaqim Serendah untuk berbuka puasa, solat maghrib & buat doa selamat sikit. Ni baru jemput adik-adik aku kat tahfiz je InshaAllah kalau ada rezeki, kami jemput sedara mara. Jiran² yang banyak busy body, cari salah org, mengata bagai...emmm tgk dulu cane. Huhuu jahatnya aku. Ayah kata, biar org buat kita, kita jangan buat org. 

Petang tu, aku balik keje terus g rumah baru...wow rumah baru tu...! Tgk² mak dah busy kat dapur dgn ayah. Adik² ada dalam 45 orang semuanya. Tapi 10 minit kemudian, diorang sampai. Ada 4-5 orang yang masuk ke dapur bantu apa yg patut. Hehe...

Irfan mcm biasalah, berlari sana sini. Hyper kan... So, ni aku belanja foto-foto sekitar majlis kami yg comel tu...

-mamairfan-



















Jangan Bina Kebahagiaan Atas Penderitaan Orang Lain

Semakin hari, semakin semak fikiran aku dgn kerenah 'kakak' (wanita yang menganggu hidup aku & Irfan). Ada aja yang dia x puas hati. Yang kelakarnya, dia nak ber whatsapp dgn aku, tapi apa yang kita cakap semua dia x nak terima. Lepas tu segala jawapan aku pada soalan dia, semua dia putar jadik lain. Hahaa...tak faham kan? Aku pun x faham masalahnya. Sekarang dia dah mula meroyan kat 'insan itu'. Hah, ikut korang la nak jadik cane pun. Aku dah ikut pening dah dgn korang berdua ni.
Dia nak cabar nafkah & perjanjian yang dah dipersetujui? Dia minta bahagian dia? Dia minta hak dia? Alahmak..ni kalau suruh budak 7 tahun fikir pun faham kot? "Kak, kalau akk nak cabar keputusan mahkamah, nak cabar nafkah Irfan pun, akk pergilah kahwin dulu dgn dia...", itu yang cuba aku katakan pada kakak. Susah ke nak faham? Kakak asik whatsapp aku, cakap pasal mana hak dia? Kenapa insan itu x tanggung dia? Kenapa aku ambik duit insan itu? Kenapa insan itu kena bagi duit tiap² bulan kat aku? Hmm...itu aku belum tanya lagi, apa pulak ikatan dia dgn insan itu? Baru merancang nk kawen... Tapi dh tanya pasal hak? Nafikan hak irfan? Aku ni jenis, kalau org buat aku, aku leh diam.. Tapi jangan sesekali sentuh pasal anak aku. Bila aku kata, kalau rasa aku salah, bincang lah di mahkamah. Pandai pulak ingat kan aku yang insan itu papa irfan. Takkan aku nk susahkan papa irfan? Tang tu dia tau pulak? Tang duit? Langgar semua? Yang ko ceroboh rumah aku, privacy aku semua tu? Cane nk kira lak tu?
Kadang² aku kesian mengenangkan insan itu... Dulu aku adakan segalanya. Sekarang dia terpaksa susah payah sbb kakak x penah cukup. Tak sanggup susah bersama insan itu. Mungkin mmg itulah tujuan kakak mula mula dulu. Dia ingat boleh tumpang senang. Sebab tu awal awal dulu dia x bagi kami berpisah. Dia kata dia sanggup 'share'. Gilalah... Sekarang? Kalau ada perempuan lain nak share dgn dia, tengok dia sanggup ke x? Insan itu nk jumpa anak sendiri pun kakak bagi syarat mcm mcm. Baru keluar rumah dah call aku, pesan suruh insan itu balik cepat  jgn lama lama.. Huh..
Apa rasanya? Hidup dalam ketakutan... Sentiasa takut laki (tp belum kawen) balik pada bekas isteri? Lain kali jangan ganggu rumah tangga org. Hidup kau yg akan dihantui apa yg kau pernah buat pada org lain. Laki kau keluar jumpa org lain kau x tau. Kau ingat dia jumpa aku, padahal dah dekat setahun aku x jumpa insan itu. Sedih... Kesian... Dibayangi perlakuan sendiri.
Jangan sekali kali bina kebahagiaan di atas kehancuran, kesedihan org lain. Allah tu adil. Org yg teraniaya sentiasa di lindungi Nya.
Aku harap insan itu dapat jaga diri baik baik. Walau apapun, dia tetap insan yg pernah bersama dengan aku & irfan suatu ketika dulu. Semoga Allah lindungi dia. 

-mamairfan-

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Kami dah teruskan hidup, kenapa kamu masih di situ?

Assalamualaikum...(aku pun tak pasti sama ada blog ini ada pengikut atau tak hihihi)

Kadang-kadang kita terlupa, tak perasan yang kita boleh bercerita di blog ini. Kadang-kadang kita rasa lost dalam sesuatu situasi. Sampai kita tak tau arah tuju kita. Tapi aku rasa, alhamdulillah aku masih berada di atas landasan yang sepatutnya aku ikut. Allah ada. Dia dah anugerahkan pada aku anugerah yang paling indah, Irfan yang akan bersama aku susah dan senang.

Baru-baru ni, tiba-tiba je 'insan itu' (yang pernah aku temani sewaktu dia susah...) bertindak di luar jangkaan aku. Selama hidup sendiri, alhamdulillah walaupun kadang-kadang insan itu tak tepati janji, aku tetap redha dgn apa yg Allah tetapkan untuk aku. Nafkah irfan, perbelanjaan seperti dalam perjanjian, semuanya di tahap ok. Tak lah marvellous tapi aku faham keadaan insan itu. There you go? Aku faham keadaan dia. Tapi tiba-tiba dia diam (x nak jawab call, x jawab sms bila perlu). Aku jarang sms kalau takde apa-apa hal.

Last-last rupanya baru aku tau, dia ada issue tak puas hati tiba-tiba lepas jumpa sorang ustaz kat Kuang ni. Ustaz tu x salah, cuma info yang dia bagi tu yang x tepat. Berkenaan perjanjian yang kami buat di luar mahkamah setahun yang lepas masa nak berpisah. Tiba-tiba agaknya kepala insan itu terhantuk agaknya, dia terus terlupa pasal perjanjian yang dia sendiri setuju dulu. Kami buat perjanjian tu atas sebab dia tak nak aku bawa kes jadi lebih besar, dia tak nak aku buat report polis dan dakwa dia di mahkamah. Jadi, sebab masih ada perasaan belas kesian yg Allah kurniakan pada aku, aku setuju dgn syarat.

So, kami buat perjanjian & tandatangan bersama dgn sorang saksi. Baru-baru ni bila issue duit ni dipertikaikan balik oleh insan itu, aku ambil langkah selamatkan irfan dulu. Aku dapatkan legal advice & ternyata perjanjian yang kami buat tu valid di mahkamah. Tapi aku masih buka peluang pada insan itu untuk berbincang & setel cara elok. Mula-mula dia berdegil. Aku kesian sebenarnya pada dia. Yang bermesej dgn aku adalah perempuan yang tinggal bersama dia. Aku nama kan 'akk'. Memang itulah panggilan aku pada dia yang aku anggap panggilan yang amat bermaruah untuk seorang perempuan yang telah hancurkan hidup aku & lebih penting lagi hidup Irfan. Aku datang drpd keluarga yg ada budi bahasa, jadi biarlah aku kekalkan itu.


Kat sini mmg aku tak disclose kan lah cerita sebenar kenapa terjadinya 'hari hitam' dalam hidup kami tu. Untuk menjaga aib mereka. Biarlah Allah saja yang buka aib itu kerana bukan hak aku untuk buat cmgtu. Aku pun bukannya baik mcm malaikat.

So, akk mesej dgn aku seakan akan aku yang salah dalam semua hal ni. Itu yang peliknya mereka ni. Diorang yang buat hal, diorang yang hancurkan hidup kami, tapi disebabkan aku x berdendam, mereka pulak naik atas kepala. Akk daripada awal lagi asyik tuntut hak dia. Hak apa ek? Sebab diorang tak ada ikatan sah pun. Cuma tinggal bersama, itu je...nauzubillah. Jadi aku tak faham setiap hak yang dia tuntut tu. Dia sedaya upaya perjuangkan hak dia dan dia kata yang dia tak patut bantu insan itu. Bagi akk, sepatutnya insan itu yang menanggung segala perbelanjaan dalam & luar. Haha...kalaulah aku boleh ceritakan sewaktu aku hidup dgn insan itu, apa yang aku dapat....hmm... Sedih jugak bila insan yang kita terima hadir dalam hidup kita, yang seawalnya tak punya apa-apa, kita jadikan dia manusia yang berguna, bantu sedaya upaya, susah bersama dia. Tapi akhirnya terkulai di samping orang lain. Aku redha.

Cuma apa yang aku kesiankan pada insan itu, dia masih x dapat menilai. Akk minta, tuntut macam-macam walaupun bukan hak dia. Hak Irfan pun dia nafikan. Insan itu pula, kerana sayang, dia jadi buta. Semasa bersama aku, aku langsung x harapkan apa-apa, tapi bila aku fikirkan, sekarang aku mesti tuntut hak Irfan. Jadi, bila insan itu kata dia nak tarik balik perjanjian yang dia sendiri buat dulu masa kami nak berpisah, aku terpaksa bertindak.

Aku masih bertolak ansur dgn ajak insan itu berbincang. Aku sanggup kurangkan nilai perjanjian kami, semata-mata nak ringankan bebannya. Mula-mula dia sombong, x nak berbincang padahal aku ni nak tolong. Ntah kenapa akhirnya dia berbincang juga dgn aku, walaupun hanya di telefon & loud speaker sbb akk nak dengar. It's ok for me. Dia x fikir yang dia banyak tipu aku, tipu akk yang mana akk tu langsung x tau.
Beberapa bulan lepas insan itu ada whatsapp aku semata mata suruh aku cover dgn akk yang dia keluar lepaking dgn kawan-kawan 'beetalk'. Ha? Selain daripada tu, walaupun dh berpisah, pernah jugak dia call aku nak pinjam duit. Akk cuma nak senang. Tapi bagi aku, akk bertuah sbb insan itu terlalu sayangkan dia. Aku dulu, emh...aku yang kena bantu dia. Tapi rasanya sampai sekarang jugak lah kot.

So, lepas perbincangan pendek di telefon yang loudspeaker tu, baru aku tau kenapa dia nak kurangkan nilai perjanjian. Sebab nak kahwin dgn akk. Haaa...baru lah mengaku tak kawen lagi. Aku dah lama suruh diorg kawen. Sejak insan itu keluar dari rumah kami, aku dah harap diorg kawen. Aku dgn Irfan dah berkorban serahkan insan itu pada akk, tapi diorg lebih seronok tinggal bersama tanpa ikatan. Western style!
Cane nak kata ek? Diorg tak tau ke apa yang kita buat atas muka bumi ni semua ada balasan? Diorg tak fikir semua tu, yang diorg tahu, nak senang. Tapi bina kesenangan, bina kebahagiaan atas kesusahan, kesengsaraan org lain.

So sekarang, akk tu nak tuntut kesenangan, selama ni diorang sewa bilik tapi sekarang katanya dah nak kawen so nak sewa rumah yang proper. Masalah aku ke? Tapi yang jadi masalah aku sekarang ni sebab akk tu dah mula suruh insan itu (yang berakal tapi x berapa nak gunakan akal) tarik segala hak Irfan, hak perjanjian yang kami buat dulu. Dengan kata lain, nak susahkan aku. Kalau lah aku ni bukan dilahirkan dgn hati yang murni, memang aku dah bawa kes ni ke mahkamah. Akk tu pulak, bila kita cakap pasal mahkamah, pasal balai polis, ketar lutut bagai. Aku akan dapat msg drpd dia berbunyi cmgni, "akak dah balik kg (Indon)..belum tahu lagi bila balik sini semula". Adoiyaii...larikk..!!!

Aku dgn Irfan x kira lah diorang nak macamana pun, tapi jangan lah babitkan kami, jangan susahkan kami, perjanjian tetap perjanjian, itu hal lain. Korang nak bina hidup ke, bina apa ke, korang fikirlah bersama. Bukan ke susah senang kena bersama? Tak perlu aku suruh insan itu nilaikan mcmana hidup dia masa dgn aku & Irfan, dengan hidup dia bersama akk. Dia sepatutnya ada akal fikiran boleh fikir sendiri. Segala apa yang dia tuduh aku dulu, berbalik semula dalam kehidupan dia. Lihatlah dunia, betapa kekuasaan Allah mengatasi segala-galanya. Subhanallah...

Aku cuma harap, aku diberi rezeki yang lebih supaya aku dapat beri kehidupan yang sempurna untuk Irfan. kalau boleh, dah tak nak ada apa² ikatan dengan insan itu. Bukan sebab kejam, tapi penat berdepan dengan masalah mereka yang tak habis² nak drag kami sama. Semoga Allah bukakan pintu hati mereka, berikan hidayah & kehidupan yang sempurna untuk mereka.

Aku & Irfan? Alhamdulillah kami bersyukur atas segala nikmat yang Allah kurniakan pada kami. Semoga kami terus bersyukur & janganlah palingkan hati kami jauh daripadaNya.

-mamairfan-

Friday, June 6, 2014

Personality : Story Behind Your Date of Birth





If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1….
If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2…
If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3…
If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4…
If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5…
If U were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month then U r number 6…
If U were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month then U r number 7…
If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8…
If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9

Number 1
You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest,Jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, Famous person… always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!
You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views
And you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future.
If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too…
Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children… You are pioneer, independent & original…
Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!
Number 2
No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot, you have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances, kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication.
Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).
If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge you can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any Artistic business people!
You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of Your family…You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!
Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!
Number 3
You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always you have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something.. You will not get anything without hardwork! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them. You do set so many examples to others.
Generally you are not a cool person. It’s not easy thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone’s attitude then here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others.
Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won’t be long.. you will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it’s over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will
be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.
You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!
Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!
Number 4
You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don’t know what to do… So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!!
Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an example you have got a degree in some thing… but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs.
But you will take care of your family very well…All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too..
You are radical, patient, persistent,a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order…
Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!
Number 5
You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything when your head thinks “lets do this”. You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship, but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships! Contacts even you are married at times ‘coz your popularity..
You are someone who get along with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it’s your best teacher!!!
Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!
Number 6
Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don’t care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love.
You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family & friends .
If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further…
Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5 !!!
Number 7
You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above.
You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life.
Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime.
It’s probably the Lord given you all sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don’t, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok?
You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!
Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!
Number 8
You are a very strong personality, there’s no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say “this is what”.
You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life.
The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always prepared to help others.
Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as :
the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents.
You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter!
Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!
Number 9
Hey…you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally… You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there. Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it’s always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off.
You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type.
Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you.
Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children.
Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate.
You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice.
You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.
Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

Thursday, April 17, 2014

About Public Speaking

This topic came up from me because of my TTM need to do a public speaking for his English class. These are some of the tips & info on how to present a good public speaking.

-ariaenn-

15 Common Persuasive Speech Topics For Persuasive Public Speaking

Common persuasive speech topics including examples of persuasive common issues, grounds, sense and experiences for a persuasive public speaking speech. These are very tasty speech topics to listen to. Because they appeal to the thoughts, feelings, experiences and even situations every member of the public will recognize. Yes, you have to do a little homework, to do some audience analysis.
It will help you to narrow the speech ideas down till they fit the public's mindset. In other words, this page is not about tired and general common persuasive speech topics that have been used too often. Like adoption, the death penalty, public prayer in education, and so on. On my other pages you can find many, many focused fresh and creative speech thesis statements on themes like that. Here I show you some fresh and creative examples of common speech topics to persuade and three simple ways to tweak and twist too broad subjects into a more handy size for research.
So, how to write a persuasive public speaking speech about common personal experiences that draw you and your audience together? Just find the missing link between you and your public. E.g. search in the school library or on the world wide web for:
  • New trends, ideas, stories, opinions, information and knowledge your listeners do not know, but really like to know.
  • A new exciting twist. E.g. Tie two speech ideas together and invent a new controversial insight.
  • The way they are affected by your common persuasive speech topics.
Simple as that! The secret lies in the connections you make. Here are ten examples of persuasive public speaking topics on common grounds in thinking, behavior and attitude:
  1. Parents should not spank their children.
  2. MP 3 players are an aid to concentrate.
  3. Sometimes it is okay to lie.
  4. Why breakfast is the most important meal of the day.
  5. Men and women speak different languages in love matters.
  6. The majority of graduate students struggle with emotional fatigue.
  7. Time is much more worth than money, and that's not a cliché.
  8. Men are obliged to put the seat down for the convenience of women.
  9. Our generation has a different life style than the generation of our parents.
  10. Shoes and socks tell a lot about men.
Common persuasive speech topics on common sense in public debate are also very popular to talk about. Most audiences like to hear you performing and discussing about:
  1. Work and other facilities need to be easily accessible for everyone.
  2. The pros of garlic are greater than the smell the day after.
  3. Borrowing money from a friend damages friendships.
  4. Juvenile delinquents should be sentenced to bootcamp.
  5. Obesity with children must be prevented by all means.
And what do you think of this example of persuasive public speaking on a common experience you have: Personal experience is more valuable than knowledge gained at school. Yes, list some shared personal experiences and moments, and turn them into great common persuasive speech topics.

Topics for Public Speaking

Find excellent topics for public speaking here. Once you've made your selection, it's guaranteed, you'll feel way more positive about giving your speech. Get started now by browsing the list below.

Top Tips For Your Speech Topic

1. For the big picture, have a look at “Ten Sources for Public Speaking Sources” below.

2. Start a speaking journal. Keep your journal with you. If you are always at a computer, start a speech file. Jot down your speech ideas as they come to you. As you deliver speeches, record your successes and areas for development. Make a list of potential organizations such as service clubs where you can use your topics for public speaking. 
3. Scan the list of hundreds of topics for public speaking below. Choose three potential topics.  
“Limitations live only in our minds.
But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.” 
Jaime
 Paolinetti

More help with topics for public speaking.

Check out  fear to get rid of public speaking anxiety. Find out about the importance of public speaking. Structure your speech with an outline. Find more information on public speaking and persuasive speech ideas. Check out master public speaking for top tips.

Ten Sources for Public Speaking Topics

1.     Interests. 
2.     Newspapers and magazine articles, internet, books, histories. 
3.     Current events.
4.     Events from your past.
5.     Signs, posters, billboards.
6.     Issues that concern you.
7.     Observations.
8.     Stories you've heard.
9.     Proverbs.
10.   Books and movies.

Topics for Public Speaking

Accelerated learning Accidents Adult training
Aids Alcoholics Anonymous Alternative Education
Alzheimer’s Disease Athletics in schools Answers
Athletics for students Attitude Audience
Automobiles Beauty Boards of Directors
Body clock Body language Book critique
Books Bulletin boards Burn Out
Camping Skills Censorship Chairman
Change management Children Christmas
Clothing Coaching Colors
Comics Communication styles Compliment
Composting Conscience Consultant
Conversation Cooking Cooperation
Courage Crafts Cravings
Creativity Credibility Crime & Law
Culture Cycling Dancing
Dating Decisions Difficult people
Discipline Diversity Dreams
Drugs Embarrassing moments Empathy
Empowerment Endangered Species Enthusiasm
Entrepreneurship Exercise Expectations
Eye Contact Facilitation Family
Family history Family tree Fashion
Fitness Folk arts Foreign aid
Freedom of speech Friends and enemies Friendship
Gambling Garage sales Garbage
Gardening Genealogy Goal setting
Goals Habits Handwriting
Health Health programs Helping others
Hibernation History Hockey
Horse racing Technological change Human Rights
Humor Ideal society Illiteracy
Imagination Immigration policies Inflation
Interviews Job search Jury duty
Language Law Leadership
Learning Problems Life cycle Listening
Literature Logic and emotions Managing stress
Marriage Media Mistakes happen
Money Motivation Music
Mutual trust Nature Negotiation
Nervousness Network Niche Marketing
Nutrition Organ donation Painting
Paperless society Pensions Personal efficiency
Personal growth Personality Pets/animals
Philosophy Photography Playoffs
Pollution Positive thinking Potential
Problem solving skills Procrastination Productivity
Professional Publicity Publishing
Quotes and famous sayings Recent advances in sciences Recognition
Recycling Romance School
Sculpture Secrets of power presentations Self Discovery
Self esteem Self image Self talk
Self-confidence Self-renewal Selling
Short stories Signs & symbols Smiling
Songs Spring fever Stars
Story telling Success Survival Skills
Team building Teamwork The secret of happiness
Theater/cinema/dance Time management Travel
Trivia Truth Vacations
Violence in our schools Violence on television Visuals
Volunteerism Wealth Wealth creation
Wild animals Wine tasting Workplace
Writing Yachts & boating Yoga
Zodiac Zoology


"Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Now is the time to understand more so that we may fear less."
Madam Curie